Meet Ella
Intersectional coach, EFT tapping practitioner and former charity CEO turned cheerleader, hypewoman and space-holder for women ready to pause, reset, and reclaim their lives.
And, if you’ve landed here, chances are you did everything “right.”
You followed the rules. Built the career. Held it all together. And still, something feels off — like the life that you worked so hard for doesn’t quite fit anymore.
That was very much my journey…
ABOUT
My Journey
(the abridged version)
I got the grades. I went to uni. I studied something that looked great on paper — but felt like someone else’s dream. Pretty early on, I realised the journey mapped out for me wasn’t one I wanted to walk.
For years I built my own path — across three continents, leading bold creative projects, eventually stepping into the role of charity CEO. On paper it looked amazing. But beneath it all? I was still disconnected from myself.
Throw new motherhood into the mix: the identity shift, the emotional intensity, the pressure to keep going… and suddenly it was like my body and soul said: enough.
I used to think coaching was something reserved for high-flying execs in the US. It never felt like something for me — until I had my daughter, and a single coaching session I booked by complete chance shifted everything.
That one conversation gave me language for what I was feeling… and permission to choose something different for this next chapter of my life.
Fast forward a few months, and I found myself pulled into the work. I trained in Transformational Coaching. I got accredited. I became an EFT Tapping practitioner. And I built Coffee With Ella — a space for women like you to finally ask, what do I want now? and actually hear the answer.
Because the truth is: you don’t need to burn it all down to begin again (although we could — bring the matches, we ride at dawn). You just need a place to start.
And this? This might be the beginning of the rest of your life.
While the Kettle’s On…
(A few things I get asked all the time)
Q: What’s your coaching style in three words?
Real. Grounded. Expansive.
Q: What’s your coffee order?
Insert coffee order.
Q: Who’s your work actually for?
Women who’ve built the career, followed the rules, kept it all looking good… and yet are quietly losing themselves in the process. Women who are tired of being the reliable one, the high-functioning one, the one who’s “fine.” Women who want clarity, honesty, and a way forward that actually feels like theirs.
Something I’m manifesting:
A trip back to Barbados for my birthday. Warm sun, soft mornings and a suitcase full of swimsuits and intentions.
A song I’ve had on repeat:
‘Original Coffee’ by KOFFEE. No notes. Just vibes.
Most used phrase this month:
“What else is possible?”
